CHEST Guidelines-Family-Meeting

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The poem "Family Meeting" by Diane Portman, MD, reflects the complex emotions and challenges faced by healthcare providers, particularly during palliative care conversations in the ICU. The poem captures the intense emotional environment surrounding a patient’s critical condition, where family members cling to hope with phrases like "he’s a fighter" while grappling with the possible reality of impending loss.<br /><br />Portman, who is a Palliative Care physician, uses vivid imagery to depict the paradoxical feelings experienced by caregivers—between duty and the impulse to momentarily escape the emotional intensity. The poem explores these tensions as healthcare professionals delicately navigate discussions about end-of-life care with families, trying to balance realistic medical outcomes with the hopes and fears of those involved.<br /><br />As tensions rise and hopeful yet uncertain discussions unfurl, the poem describes an inner voice suggesting departure, yet the practitioner remains, committed to their role despite the emotional toll. Ultimately, the narrative settles into a moment of acceptance, where the various emotional threads converge into a "fragile harmony."<br /><br />The poem reflects on human hope and the universal struggle to confront limitations, all while maintaining compassion and understanding. Portman’s writing underscores the earnest motivations driving healthcare professionals to support families during their loved ones' final moments, aiming to create a space for peace and acceptance amid the inevitable stresses and grief of the ICU.<br /><br />This piece is published as part of the Pectoriloquy section in the Chest Journal, emphasizing a unique intersection of poetry and medicine, where submissions focus on themes relevant to physicians and healthcare experiences.

Keywords

Family Meeting

Diane Portman

palliative care

ICU

healthcare providers

end-of-life care

emotional intensity

hope and loss

poetry and medicine

Chest Journal